It was a little confusing but I don't take what people say to heart. We're both 15, and we've both admitted we "like each other". The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice He did special prayers and used his power Within 7 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily and our child is happy too. because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. "@LakotaMan1 Why..NOBODY cares what these people do.so long as they stay away from our children. male scorps). Angel Ward from Galveston, TX on July 25, 2012: I agree 1000% And the comment with a scorp's mom in the hospital, there is always some drama going on, that's a great excuse for withdrawal, to distract the sig. He says back I like you too etc Then I said he was confusing me what did he want and he replies with its not going to workout. I have known him fr 8 years Best friends that tend to flirt a lot. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. Now i know he is so powerful , he is so confidence . I'm going through the same crap. Also, not saying all of you did this, just throwing it out there, but do not, do NOT sleep with him right away. I should have given up but I still hope because I felt his love for me in his eyes. And wish I could roll more mid field and not the spikes up and down constantly is really tiring. So I have made it a point to not bring that into "us" I also invited him to hangout with my friends for Thanksgiving and with family for Christmas. If you give him the room to flourish and aren't breathing down his neck all the time, he's going to become obsessed with you and your laid back nature. Nonetheless, a Scorpio has a very unique personality they appear cold and reserved while at the same time eman. Thoughts? The next morning he broke up with me via text. this morning when we went to my office he is very sweet. well he did the withdraw thing to me.. but he told me after I sent him a message.. that everything is fine. Even though they're a water sign, they make you feel like their love is setting you on fire over and over again, and you can't get enough of it. Signs that a Scorpio man is cheating on you. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. You never know what could come next but I'm sure you'll be surprised with what he can come up with. I do this, and I can tell you it really ticks me off when I am creating space on purpose, and someone asks me what's wrong. When you can determine no good reason to dislike someone, you will be stymied by the fact that you just dontclickwith the people that you so desperately want to. And the emotions of others merely scratch the surface. Again, anyone going through all of this nonsense, move on. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. A Scorpio man will test you how he pleases, so he thinks he has the right to switch things up a bit. You have to be very careful when lying to a Scorpio man because he is excellent at reading people and will probably know intuitively when you are lying to him. The weird thing is that I'm on birth control so wtf just happened?! Mine always seems to have no time for me . For those not in the know, the mysterious and deeply intense Scorpio birth flower is the geranium. Rated all ups!! Too much of us isn't good. Where there is a will, a Scorpio will always find a way. Again, as a Capricorn I am secretive and I didnt want it to be something all of our acquaintances knew about. Make him WORK for you, if he wont then keep it moving as he will if it were you. Remember there arent only 12 kinds of people in this world !! i have fallen deeply in love with this man who has now, after 3 and a half months (yes I know it is a short time) not introduced me to anyone, never invited me over to his house, starting being busy over weekends with family issues only pops over 1 night in the week for the last 3 weeks. Our Love is real we know it from the Start. Even sexual relationship is outstanding but emotionally not. Yes we take our time doesn't mean we don't care we just need assurance that we won't expose ourselves for being hurt in return. "I care for you, but I cant give this relationship what it needs" You will be fine. From my experience (both as a Scorpio and as someone who has dated several Scorpio men), I'm going to explain their peculiar behavior as best as I can. It might feel quite disgusting if you realize that they are acting in a way that will make you feel bad for them or put their needs first. But he still is withdrawing. Tell him so. our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. Seeing them in pain should hurt you, too. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. I KNOW that he loves me - he told me he did two days ago in a phone call and then he didn't respond to my three texts today and I do that damn scales balancing act thing that I hate so much. He just wants me to already know why he's upset. how is the best way to respond to text or call after they have been distancing themselves and a little cold. In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. Any advice from other Scorpio men out there would be greatly appreciated. HELP!!!! Your pup pushing you away can be a puzzling behavior and attempting to understand it can help you better care for your dog. The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that's why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict. 6. Its not that youd ever go totally out of your way to maliciously hurt another person, just that Virgos have a tendency to be super honest and up front and sometimes really blunt they care about people so deeply, and yet fear that their sometimes (unintentionally) insensitive ways could wreak havoc in the life of someone they love. I am not giving up on Him, not giving up on us. I hope I helped!! I don't want to tell him because he may think I'm just trying to get him back it really hurts feeling this way all alone. I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. I know the Bug had a Gig near my Place so i went to Hogans to surprise him. 1) they take time to find love. I will take note of not pushing him away and love him harder. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there needs it You can email him through his email..dr_mack@ yahoo. Some people may take that as being taken for granted, but I guess all I can say is, if that bothers you, talk about it. If a Leo is pushing people away, its usually because they are truly afraid that they are going to be pushed away first, and this is how they reclaim their power. If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. I dont like some things I think or say, be they fact or not. In the beginning, when we first start dating I had told him about a few things that bothered me and he told me 'this feels so breakable'. We sporadically texted over the next week or so, but I gave up because I noticed I was the only one initiating conversation, and after he ignored a snapchat I sent him, that was the last straw. Mine came back after 5 years. This is what separates the unfaithfulness of a Scorpio into such a complex element. But if the dog finally turned around and bit you then, would you think, simply because it hadn't done so before, that it came out of nowhere? Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. The hot and cold Scorpio man has a tendency sometimes to jump in without fully looking. Though they love to be loved, theyd prefer the comfort of knowing they arent going to get hurt over the fear of being vulnerable any day. I don't know why he begs to be with me then leaves. I just told him I was over the whole thing and we havent spoken since. then his txts are so short without endearment. Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. I lost my mind. Ummmm we are 50 and 42. He messaged me a few days later and told me he had messed up and couldnt stop thinking about it so could we hang out again. Libras are constantly at odds between what they want and what they thinkotherpeople want. Hes naturally secretive and very vindictive, dont stand for it and don't miss out waiting on him. I don't think he respects me. But here's the thing Scorpio is either ice or fire. I love his jealous & possessiveness alot . My scorpio man sais he adores me etc I know he likes me very much a dis genuine but then he desapears for a few days then he comes back. He may just be enjoying his alone time, pondering the meaning of life, or pouring himself into his passion projects. But now I haven't heard from him for a week and a half and have no idea why. I guess it was probly #1 thow since his mom is in the hospital. If he completely stops communicating, he may have decided to cut all strings and end it. Ruled by Mars, Scorpios are extremely motivated and driven when they put their mind to something they are interested in. As a fixed water sign, Scorpios are known for their loyalty and devotion and also their passion. Sarah, he might come back, depending if he loves you and realizes he made a mistake. I live in Wisconsin. You never let your walls down or allow anyone to get too close. So we've been checking our snapchat stories which he only posted two and so did I. I feel like my situation is probably number 5 but sometimes I get a feeling he will try to contact me one day idk. What do you guys think??? I am NOT going to contact him. I refuse to take tesponsibikitu for HIS emotionaly irresponsibility. @Sho - their is no possible chance of getting him back. However, Scorpio is well-known for slinking away and ruminating over past wrongs. s10.favim.com. Virgos are often extremely cautious in love and will consider all odds before letting feelings arise towards someone. Tell them how sincerely sorry you are for what you've done. I tried to talk to him and I told him that I was asleepI thought he would have realized that I've never ever ignored himhe knows I would never do that. I know they behave negative but see them positive ! Please help me and tell me he will come back to me. These in-between times usually happen when he is trying to make an effort because he knows you probably don't understand his intensity or because he's genuinely curious about something you mentioned. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. Sep 20, 2014. What should I do ? They are ignoring you. both of us want sex but somehow, i started to doubt him and realize i dont really just want sex. Their rage is intense and packs a punch. Whether its a friendship or relationship or anything else, keeping others at an arms length is often a Taurus feeling afraid that they will be a poor influence, or at the very least, distract or discourage them from what they really want to accomplish in life. They might even play the victim card, so they can pull back from you, acting all hurt and devastated. The best advice I can give here is to communicate. It comes in several parts and . But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. Providing you go about it the right way, you will then draw him irresistibly back into your arms. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! Aquarians are not here to pity any fools, and will not continue to hang out with people who make them feel anymore isolated and odd than they already do. This leads you to much success but even greater self-inflicted pressure. They ultimately settle into a better to have loved and lost mindset. Dont give in to him. I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. . That was a month ago. He has this Sunshine Smile, this happy Puppy Look. My Mom passed March 31 and I wouldn't have been able to make it if it weren't for him. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. My Mom's last wish was for us to meet. I really liked this hub. com. We have had periods of intense sexual conversation and then we lose contact for weeks to months, then one of us will reappear. Two weeks after the kiss, we continued to talk. Gone poorly, a Scorpio and Pisces relationship will turn into a tsunami. On that note we weren't even a couple so I have no idea why he has taken it to heart or what's going on. First time he gave me the silent treatment I was a bit agitated with him because he kept calling me difficult and I got pissed and told him something mean like 'you better go back online and find an easy-going girl who had an easy life'. Right now he hasn't responded three days so kind of concerned. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. Geminis often tend to be silent admirers, while Cancerians are guaranteed to put their point across if they have feeling for someone. My friends think I should get an abortion to save myself the heart ache but I could never do that! That's not easy to swallow. I hate arguments and confrontations and i always try my hardest for my partner to undertsand him better and not hurt his feelings but he is confrontational type and arguments exhaust me. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. Sometimes you focus too much on the destination and don't spend as much time on the journey. does he has no respect for me as a human being? He broke up with me over text about a week and 3 days ago. Everything was good very attentive, nice and good listener he acted like everything was fine except for last Sunday something was off he was more irritated and sarcastic especially with his eyes and smirks. If he is a fit for you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. Just in more obvious and aggravating ways! We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. He had helped me with some work stuff two weeks ago, but then told me how it stressed him out. It's important that you're truly remorseful when you apologize to them. other from the real issue.ALWAYS. They push them away when they know they must seriously focus on the former. A few years later, you accidentally step on the dog's tail. We are not together, 50/50 shared responsibility for break up. Anyway, before he explained why he didnt want to come to Christmas with me he just said (I like to stay in and do nothing) like I said my feelings got hurt and I was quiet maybe even a bit distant and cold. Being in Love is wonderful. 7. I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. As a water sign, Scorpios are born with it. 9. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. Every day & night he would text me or calling and today nothing. Love yourself, have your own projects and passions in life and trust in God. I really wish he would just stop leading me on, wowso helpful to hear all the amazing similaritiesi don't know if 1-5?? When they are focused, it is with a single-minded obsession. Then I said I understand , you already made up your mind. Sometimes it just doesnt make sense. Utterly brave, passionate, and stubborn, you'll find yourself consumed if you're in love with a Scorpio. This is why Scorpios like to follow long-term partnerships, but also why the heart of their partners shakes when a covert affair arises. I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. Sometimes i fought with him , coz i thought he does not love me !!!!! To all scorpio man out there, could you please explain why is it really hard for you to express your feelings with the one whom you feel somewhat special to you? We flirt constantly , talk about crazy things and have fun. Not responding to my texts . 1. I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. When a Scorpio man is done with you, they use your own fears against you. I hope this advice helps. He has broken up with me last week . It's about you feeling small and crushed, cowering in a corner surrounded by your guilt. How can u fall in Love with somebody else when u still be living with her. Answer: Scorpio-Scorpio needs a little compromise when it comes to love. But I have a son who was looking up to him. In the rest of this article, I will share with you the five main reasons why Scorpio man pulls away. I feel lime this would work really well but it's hard to get him to talk. I need Dr. I am a pisces. Also do you think he will come back? They want you to pour out your heart and you literally have to pry things out of them. 4 You want more from the relationship than he does. Not only will they expect you to be there waiting for them, but they'll expect you to have a smile on your face while you are waiting. Scorpions will call you at 3 o'clock in the morning to ask for a ride home from the club. But now you're older and so confident in his loyalty that you constantly yank on his tail to show your friends how much he loves you. In fact he ended the wonderful relationship we had because he says he needs to think of whether or not he wants kids and family or not. As a Scorpio, you are your own toughest critic. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! Imagine you have a dog. Apply insecticide around the windows, doors, and baseboards inside the house. Go figure. My boyfriend is a scorpio and I'm libra. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. Common personality traits and how they manifest in romance, Top reasons why he's off the grid and ignoring your texts, Explanations for his off-and-on behavior and sudden blow-ups, Important tips for cultivating a healthy relationship.